Yes, my bathroom and apartment are a mess (actually they're better than you'd expect), and this doesn't bother me as much as the fact that people are dirty. Each human being is a walking infection full of germs and disease. We block these facts out when we're drunk and trying to run game but it remains the bottom line.
Mouths and other orphuses are disgusting and contain many vile things. A sober mind knows this and an obsessive mind will constantly focus it and even write blogs about it. Where and who has that pretty girl or charming man been with. Everyone has a history, unless you're a nun. (Priests have really bad histories).
Love, or like I said alcohol, or hormones even, can make us bury these truths in the back of our mind for a temporary bacterial exchange. This is why we're all here in the first place. Blame one, two or all three of those above causes for your own existence.
Look at some one's hands. Hands say a lot too. Hands and feet are kind of weird and collect a lot of dirty things along the way. I really don't like looking at feet. Man hands or, hands with long fingernails can be equally disgusting and a turn off. I have very soft hands. But they are just as dirty as anyone else's.
I'm sorry for being negative tonight.
Think about these things as you socialize tonight.